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The GOP-controlled House easily passed another stopgap measure today that would keep the government running for another week, but President Obama called it a “distraction” and promised to veto it if reached his desk. It probably won’t, however, because Senate Democrats aren’t expected to even consider it. Obama, meanwhile, sat…

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My long-term girlfriend is fabulous, but I’m expected to do everything when it comes to sex and now I can’t get an instant erection like I used to I’m a 24-year-old male. My long-term girlfriend (who was a virgin before meeting me) is a fabulous woman and a great friend, and we have thought about settling down together by the end of the year. However, she expects me to do everything when we are in bed, which makes me mad and I lose my desire. I don’t get an instant erection as I used to earlier, but instead I must stroke it for a while. Is it normal? Or shall I check with a doctor? Your girlfriend is inexperienced, and not a mind-reader. You need to let her know you would appreciate it if she occasionally took the initiative. Tell her exactly what you’d like her to do and how. Impart this information in a gentle and encouraging manner. Begin by praising her for something she does that you enjoy, then follow up with “But I’d also love it if you’d try to . . .” or “I would prefer it if you would . . .” Paradoxically, this approach will also make you a better lover and improve the pleasure for both of you, because she will eventually feel safe enough to educate you about her specific needs in a similarly thoughtful fashion. Contrary to popular belief, good sex does not occur naturally and spontaneously; it requires practice. Your plans to settle down make it even more important that you learn better sexual communication, because you will frequently need those skills. Not having an instant erection does not mean there’s anything wrong. As you get older, you will probably take even longer, and will continue to require direct stimulation. • Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. • Email your problem to private.lives@guardian.co.uk Sex Relationships Pamela Stephenson Connolly guardian.co.uk

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US Congress staff put on notice

800,000 federal employees set to be suspended from midnight on Friday as budget talks hit new sticking point The US Congress has begun sending out letters warning staff they will be suspended from this weekend along with hundreds of thousands of other workers as part of a looming federal government shutdown. The letters inform staff whether they are regarded as essential – necessary to maintain security and keep Congress running – or non-essential. The process will be repeated at the White House, the Pentagon and hundreds of federal agencies that are preparing to scale back or cease operation from midnight on Friday. The Democrats and Republicans failed on Thursday to end the stalemate in their budget dispute that will see the federal government shut down. Barack Obama called the House speaker, John Boehner, a Republican, to the White House to see if their differences could be bridged.If no last-minute agreement is reached, the government will begin stopping everything from tourist visits to the Statue of Liberty and Alcatraz to wages for about 800,000 federal employees. In Washington, libraries will close, there will be no parking attendants and, for one week, no rubbish collection, and the University of the District of Columbia would also be shut. One of the most emotional issues is that troops in Afghanistan, Iraq and elsewhere would not receive pay cheques until the crisis is resolved. But they would at least continue earning during any shutdown, unlike civilian employees. Hopes that a deal was closer rose after a White House meeting late on Wednesday between Barack Obama, Boehner, and the Democratic Senate leader, Harry Reid. But on Thursday morning, both Reid and Boehner went into reverse, with Reid saying he was more pessimistic than he had been the night before. One of the Republican leaders in the House, Eric Cantor, signalled that a deal was unlikely before the Friday midnight deadline when he interrupted House proceedings to announce that Republican legislators were preparing to stay in session over the weekend to try to end the impasse. The Republicans want a cut in the federal deficit of $40bn( £24bn). The Democrats made a compromise offer of $34.5bn on Wednesday. The new sticking points are mainly the areas where the Republicans want cuts – abortion programmes and environmental protection, on which the Democrats refuse to give way. Reid, speaking in the Senate, said: “The numbers are basically there. But I’m not nearly as optimistic – and that’s an understatement – as I was 11 hours ago. The numbers are extremely close. Our differences are no longer over how much savings we get on government spending.” He added: “The only thing holding up an agreement is an ideology.” He said the Republican leadership had drawn a line in the sand over abortion and clean air, issues he said had no place in a budget bill. But Boehner’s office disputed that there was even agreement on the numbers. The House, which is controlled by the Republicans, began passage of a bill that would keep the federal government going for at least another week. But the Senate, which is Democratic-controlled, will not pass it and Obama said he would veto it anyway. The Democrats say they are not interested in another stop-gap measure and insist is only a Republican attempt to avoid blame for a shutdown. As evidence, they say that the bill includes $12bn in cuts. But Boehner said: “The bill the House is considering today would fund our troops through September in the face of three conflicts and keep the government from shutting down tomorrow, while reflecting meaningful reductions in government spending that are widely accepted by both chambers of Congress.” US politics US Congress United States Democrats Republicans Ewen MacAskill guardian.co.uk

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MSNBC’s Brewer Denounces GOP Bill to Fund Military Paychecks

As the prospect of a government shutdown continued to make headlines today, MSNBC’s Contessa Brewer accused Republicans of exploiting troop paychecks for political gain, even though the House approved legislation to fund the Pentagon in the event of a shutdown and President Barack Obama threatened to

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ABC Grills Boehner, a ‘Hostage’ to the Tea Party, on Whether He Can Avoid the ‘Fate’ of Gingrich

According to World News' Diane Sawyer, House Speaker John Boehner is being “held hostage” by the Tea Party. Over two days and two shows, Sawyer and interviewer George Stephanopoulos hit the Republican as captive to an unreasonable base who want to shut down the government. On Thursday's Good Morning America, after Boehner asserted that taxpayer dollars shouldn't fund abortions, Stephanopoulos chided, “If you hold on to that, the White House and Democrats have been very clear, there's no deal. The government is going to shut down.” He didn't make the obvious logical conclusion that the Democrats are being held hostage by a liberal, pro-abortion base. Later, the GMA host reiterated his point, arguing: “You know what the Democrats say. They say they can cut a deal with you. But you don't buck the Tea Party.” In a political warning to the Speaker, Stephanopoulos wondered, “You saw what happened to Speaker Gingrich during a government shutdown. Are you going to avoid that fate?” (What exactly was Gingrich's fate? He was reelected, kept his job through 1998 and the Republicans held the majority until 2006.) On Wednesday's World News, Sawyer spun, ” We keep reading that a lot of people think he's being held hostage, as it were, to the Tea Party inside his own party .” A transcript of the April 7 GMA segment, which aired at 7:06am EDT, follows: GEORGE STEPHANOPOULOS: You know, that potentially explosive issue of congressional pay is just one of the topics I covered in my exclusive interview with Speaker Boehner. He also took on claims by Democrats that he's kowtowing to the Tea Party. And just hours before that White House meeting, signaled why he wasn't ready to accept president Obama's proposal. SPEAKER JOHN BOEHNER: We're fighting for the largest cuts that we can because it will help our economy. STEPHANOPOULOS: But you called for $32 billion in cuts in your original proposal. Now, you're at $33 billion. BOEHNER: George, remember where all this started. The Democrats controlled the House last year. They controlled the Senate. They should have done this budget last year. They couldn't come to an agreement. We're cleaning up last year's mess. STEPHANOPOULOS: When you came in this year, you proposed and your leadership proposed a bill that would cut $32 billion. And now, they're beyond that. Why isn't that good enough? BOEHNER: Well, because the House came up with $100 billion worth of spending cuts. And specific policy riders that have been part of everybody appropriations process. And we send it over to the Senate. It's been 46 days. The Senate has not acted. STEPHANOPOULOS: You mention those policy riders. Some of them include cutting funding for Planned Parenthood. Cutting the enforcement for the Environmental Protection Agency. The President says those have no place in a short-term continuation resolution. Your response? BOEHNER: There's never been an appropriation process where there were

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With Republicans and Democrats still leagues apart on the 2011 budget , House Republicans will vote today on yet another extension. This one would only be for a week, but would include a full-year Pentagon budget. It would also include a lot of domestic cuts, as the price to keep the…

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AP Report on Obamacare 1099 Repeal Ignores How It Came About, Downplays Tax Increase, Misstates Current Law

The repeal of Obamacare's nightmarish 1099 requirement has passed both chambers of Congress and is on its way to the President for his expected signature. In reporting Tuesday on the repeal bill's progress, the Associated Press's headline writers assured readers that the original requirement in Obamacare was a “small” component of it. The AP's Stephen Ohlemacher also misstated current 1099 filing requirements, ignored the offsetting work disincentives which are de facto tax increases (i.e., reductions of tax credits) that were crammed into the bill to “pay” for lost revenue that will supposedly result from repeal, and glossed over the fact that the requirement made it into law because almost no one read the Obamacare legislation in the first place. Other than that, the AP report isn't too bad. (/sarc) Here are key paragraphs from Ohlemacher's report (bolds and number tags are mine): Congress votes to repeal small part of health law

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George Allen asks black reporter what position he played in football — then apologizes

George Allen is said to be running in 2012 for the Senate seat he once held and lost to Jim Webb; you may remember he was the favorite of the religious right to be the presidential pick until he famously uttered the “macaca” slur back in 2006. Well, he’s at it again with his racist stereotypes. It’s evident how he views the world and the people that live in it. Washington Post: NBC 4’s reporter-anchor Craig Melvin is a tall African-American. Which apparently led to this exchange with former Sen. George Allen, according to Melvin’s Twitter account Tuesday night: “For the 2nd time in 5 months, fmr. gov. and sen candidate George Allen asks me,”what position did you play?” I did not a play a sport.” enlarge Credit: Twitter How embarrassing. The fact that it happened a second time is what’s illuminating. Let’s say he actually forgot that he talked to NBC 4’s reporter-anchor Craig Melvin before, when he previously asked him not if he played sports in college, but what position ‘did’ he play. But to do it a second time to the same guy shows a pattern, ladies and gentlemen of the jury. Allen’s apology is not exactly persuasive: It might be natural and unrevealing to ask someone if they played sports — but to assume that a person played football specifically is just weird and stupid — unless your framework is that of your classic racial stereotype.

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Now Mike Pence tells the House: ‘Shut it Down!’

Click here to view this media Mike Pence had a moment of honesty on the House floor a bit earlier today. He attempted to blame Democrats for the impending government shutdown, and then said: “Then I say: Shut it down. And I’m certain the American people are going to know who to blame.” That’s right, we will. Liberal or not, we know who to blame. Republicans have control of this House of Representatives. They have filibuster control in the Senate. They’re holding the budget hostage to ideological issues like abortion and the EPA, neither of which has a single thing to do with the troops. So yes, we know who to blame. Especially when they’ve been out exhorting crowds to “Shut It Down!” The TeaBirchers and the Republican Party, who are now one and the same.

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