After 16-year wait, Srebrenica’s women come face to face with commander accused of slaughtering their men and boys Munira Subasic last saw Ratko Mladic at Srebrenica in 1995, when she begged him to leave her ill son alone. On Friday, 16 years on and with her son still missing, presumed dead, in a massacre that claimed more than 7,000 lives, Subasic came face to face again with the Bosnian Serb commander accused of the atrocity. “He lied to me and took my son to his death,” she said outside the international criminal tribunal for the former Yugoslavia at The Hague, where Mladic